Singing lessons for 4 year olds ( Is it too early? )

There are a lot of parents who wish for their children to become a singer, either because they have a background in music and singing or it is one of the parent’s unfulfilled dream. In some cases parents notice their children having a good voice for singing at an early age, although every parent thinks its child is special but if the parent doesn’t have a history in singing or voice acting it will be difficult to not have a bias when it comes to their own child’s voice.

Teaching a 4 year old how to sing can be difficult, there are not a lot of singing lessons suitable for 4 year olds. A 4 year old child will have difficulty focusing on the singing lessons, and some would say that it is way too early for them to start learning how to sing. On the other hand, you can always teach your own 4 years old how to sing by singing sing along songs and most importantly by making singing fun for them.

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If you are the parent of a 4 year old and you would like your child to pursue a career in singing then you have probably thought about some vocal or singing classes at least. If you have tried you probably know that most vocal coaches will not work with a 4 year old as it is simply way too early for them to start singing. Most singing and vocal coaches claim that the best time for a child to start learning to sing is around the age of 14-15.

This age also varies from boys to girls, as girls develop a lot faster and they can start learning to sing as early as age 8. On the other hand, boys develop slower and once puberty hits their voice will change dramatically, this is why most teachers will only teach boys who are around the age of 15. Although if you have a 4-year old that doesn’t mean that he can not take singing lessons, but you have to keep in mind to make each and every singing lesson fun.

Generally speaking, most kid singers develop their voice around the age of 17, although becoming a successful singer could be difficult at that age also it is still possible, for more information check out my recent article How to become a singer at 17 ( 11 Easy Steps ).

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Make singing fun for 4 year olds

If you want to teach your 4 year old to sing then you have to take a different approach. Most singing lessons take a lot of time and practice to master, and honestly speaking they are not meant for a 4 year old in any shape or form. Even older beginner singers tend to injure themselves while singing, in an attempt to either please their parents or their teachers, and this is the last thing you would want for a 4 year old.

Let us face it most 4 year olds can hardly speak, let alone sing. But if you are confident in your child’s voice then you will have to make singing fun for them. There are literally millions of kids songs on the internet, with a simple sing-along you can teach your child a lot. If by some miracle you end up finding a teacher who is willing to work with your 4 year old make sure that the teacher has a history teaching young children.

Just a couple of years in the difference between children makes a massive difference in what they can learn and how they can sing. You as a parent should avoid at all costs making singing a chore for the 4 year old, and do not become too strick when it comes to singing, you have to remember that there is a limit on how much time a 4 year old can focus on one thing.

Sing alongs for 4 year old

One of the easiest ways to teach a 4 year old to sing is to make fun sing alongs, no matter with which parent as long as they are fun. Most parents who do sing to their children, you will have to step it up a bit and try to sing a song that a 4 year old can sing. Oftentimes it will sound like jibberish mixed with some English but that is not important, the main aspect of a sing along is to have fun, and sooner or later you will notice that your 4 year old will start singing along.

Singing daycare for 4 year olds

Not all parents have the option to send their kids to a singing daycare, oftentimes these are fairly expensive and the waiting period is far too long to get accepted. However, if you do have the possibility to send your child to a singing daycare then it would definitely help your 4 year old, not only in terms of singing but by actually socializing with children who also like singing. These early friendships do not tend to last for a long time, but the ones that do are often lifetime friendships, and if their goal is to become singers then it would be a lot easier for them.

Singing contests and talent shows for 4 year olds

I know a lot of people who think their child is special and would want to share their talent with the entire world. But if you have ever gone to one of these contests featuring children singing and doing various talents you probably noticed that these contests take a toll on them. Most children just want to have fun, they might win a trophy or two but that can never replace their childhood. So if you are a parent make sure not to put too much pressure on your child as they might end up miserable later in life. Just google any child stars and what has become of them.


One of the great benefits of taking your child at an early age to singing contests is that she could be discovered by a vocal scout if you want more information check out my recent article How to get discovered as a singer ( As FAST as possible ).

Clapping songs for 4 year olds

Clapping is vital if you want your child to learn the tempo of a song intuitively, not only it is a fun activity for them but it also teaches them a lot about music. There are thousands of clapping songs online, all you have to do is to search for a couple of them. Just keep in mind that some of these clapping songs are filled with ads on youtube which will make it kind of difficult to follow.

Singing groups or 4 year olds

There are a lot of parents interested in teaching their children to sing, some even sign them up as early as 4 years. What is great about these singing groups is that one of the parents also gets involved as these groups mainly do sing-alongs as a group. This way, you as a parent, can teach your child not only to sing but you will also learn a lot on how to teach your 4 year old to sing from the teachers and even from the other parents.

Vocal coach for 4 year olds

As I have already mentioned above you will have as a parent an extremely difficult time finding a voice teacher for a 4 year old. No matter how talented or how good of a singing inclination your 4 year old has it will be almost impossible to find a voice teacher. The main reason for this is because teaching someone so young is difficult and when it comes to singing where the child has to focus for long periods of time is impossible.

In conclusion

As you have already noticed you as a parent do not have a lot of choices if you want to teach your 4 year old singing lessons. The best you can do as a parent is to get involved yourself and try sing-alongs or other singing related activities with your child. The age of 4 is way too young for any child to take singing seriously, and if the child doesn’t have fun while doing it then you can say goodbye to her singing career as she will never follow through.